St. Matthew Catholic Church welcomes your interest in celebrating the Sacrament of Marriage in our church. Because it is a sacred space, and because marriages celebrated by believers are important rituals not only in the life of a bride and groom, but also for the Church community as a whole, we have organized guidelines to assist you in planning your wedding at St. Matthew Church.
How to Book a Wedding at the Church
If you are interested in celebrating your marriage at St. Matthew Church, please contact the Scheduling Coordinator at 646-0378 (extension 314) to determine whether the church is available on your requested date. Weddings ordinarily take place on Saturdays and must begin no later than 2:00 p.m. and not before 7:00 p.m. (Please be mindful that due to Saturday evening Mass the church is not available before 6:30 p.m. for set up.) Weddings are discouraged during the seasons of Advent and Lent, and may not take place on major holidays.
To reserve the church for a wedding, the priest or deacon who will be witnessing the celebration will contact the Scheduling Coordinator who requests that a Wedding Facility Usage Form be completed by the bride and groom. Once this completed form has been received, the church will be reserved.
If you wish to have your rehearsal dinner or reception on church premises then you must also contact the Scheduling Coordinator to make these reservations and complete the necessary Non-Parish Event Facility Usage Form. You will also be required to fill out an application for Special Event Coverage. An application for the coverage is included in this guide as well as the facility usage form, the church fee schedule and the Cohan Hansom Building fee schedule. If a reception is taking place in the Cohan Hansom Building after a 2:00p.m. ceremony; it must conclude by 4:30p.m. because of the 5:00p.m. Mass time.
Weddings with a priest or deacon outside of St. Matthew must have the pastor’s permission.
To print your copy of the Wedding Guidelines, click here .
To print your copy of the Special Event Insurance Form, click here.
To view a video of weddings in St. Matthew Church, click here.
Guidelines for Marriage Preparation
Contacting the Priest or Deacon to Begin Marriage Preparation
You must contact the priest or deacon to begin marriage preparation six months prior to your wedding date and to determine if he is available for the date you have chosen. The marriage preparation process typically includes three elements: completing the forms required by the church, a Marriage Preparation Weekend, and planning of the marriage ceremony. Any questions regarding marriage preparation should be directed to the priest or deacon who will witness the marriage.
Guidelines for the Celebration of the Wedding
The Rite of Marriage should be celebrated with the dignity and simplicity of any liturgical celebration that occurs in the church.
The Wedding
- The central symbols of the church may not be moved or obscured (these include the altar, the ambo or pulpit, the presider’s chair, the baptismal font, the image of Christ on the cross, the crucifix and the candles that are present). Seasonal decorations (during Advent, Christmas, Easter, etc.) may not be moved.
- The only additional candles that will be permitted are the unity candle or the use of the church’s candelabras (which are to be located behind the altar on either side of the crucifix.) Use of the candelabras requires an additional fee of $50.00. Each candelabra holds seven candles. The unity candles are to be rented from a florist; however the church does have a unity candle holder available for use at no charge.
- The readings and prayers are to be taken from the approved liturgical books (see priest or deacon).
- Musical selections should create a reverent atmosphere and therefore only music and text, which would be considered suitable for Mass, are permitted. Joel Bolen, our Music Director can assist you with music selections and finding cantors or instrumentalists. He may be reached by calling 550-5108. Music may begin 30 minutes prior to the ceremony.
- No runners in the aisle are permitted.
- Rice, confetti, etc. may not be used. Bubbles and birdseed may be used outdoors only.
- Receiving Lines are not permitted in the church.
- Care must be taken to protect the tile floor, the pews, and the oriental rugs.
- Floral arrangements should be constructed before arrival at the church. Artificial flowers and greenery are not permitted. All greenery and floral arrangements must be placed in containers. Pew markers should be fastened so that the wood will not be scratched. The florist must provide any containers and equipment needed with the exception of the two vases that the church provides for the altar flowers. Floral arrangements should not obscure any of the symbols in the church nor impede the necessary movements that occur during the Liturgy. All decorations must be removed within one hour after the ceremony. The church requests that you leave two floral arrangements in the sanctuary for weekend Masses.
- Photography: Photography and videotaping must be discreet during the service. The sanctuary area may not be entered after the processional, during the service or before the recessional. Flash equipment may not be used after the start of the ceremony. Following the ceremony, pictures may be taken for 30 minutes. Videotaping must be done from a fixed position.
- Use of alcohol, including champagne, in the church area is prohibited. No member of the wedding party may be under the influence of alcohol before or during the ceremony. Use of alcohol is permitted at the reception in the Cohan-Hansom building only.
- Food and beverages (light snacks) are permitted only in the bride’s dressing area (located in the kitchen of the church or in the Bridal/Nursery room) and in the Cohan-Hanson building if the reception is held there.
- Ushers and groomsmen should arrive dressed for the wedding, since there is no dressing area for them.
- Members of St. Matthew Wedding Guild will be available to oversee both the rehearsal and wedding and to provide assistance to the couple as well as to ensure that these guidelines are adhered to. They will be available for one and a half hours for rehearsal and up to an hour and a half prior to the celebration of the wedding. The Bridal/Nursery room is available for the bridal party to prepare for the wedding one and a half hours prior to the celebration. When you book the church for a wedding, the chair of the wedding guild will be contacted. Susan Kirkwood Koenig is the chair of the wedding guild; and may be reached at 661-4220. The bride and groom are expected to cooperate fully with the members of the wedding guild (who represent St. Matthew Church and are a voluntary organization). Please be mindful to be on time.
- Ministers at the wedding (such as ushers, Eucharistic Ministers, lectors, altar servers and gift bearers are to be chosen by the couple in conjunction with the priest or deacon who assists at the marriage.)
Clean Up After the Wedding
- It is the couple’s responsibility to see that the church facilities are left clean and in good order immediately following the final photographs (mindful of the fact that weekend Masses will be taking place shortly in the Church). The couple is also responsible for leaving the Cohan-Hansom building clean and in good order with any trash taken out to the dumpster located at the back of the parking lot. (If the rehearsal dinner or reception is held in the Cohan-Hansom building).
Fee and Other Information
Church Fees
- Church Usage Fee for Registered Parishioners ($100.00)
- Church Usage Fee for Non-Parishioners ($200.00)
- Damage-Clean up Deposit ($100.00) (Refundable if the church is left clean and in good order.)
- Fee for use of candelabras ($50.00)
- Organist, Vocalist/Other Instrumentalists (arrangements must be made directly with them)
- Altar Servers ($10.00 each)
- Offering for Priest/Deacon (the first $25.00 goes to the parish, the minister may retain anything above that)
The Church Usage fee, the candelabra fee, and the damage-clean up deposit fee are due at the time the church is booked. All other fees are handled on an individual basis.
Cohan-Hansom Rental Fees
If both the rehearsal dinner and the reception will be held at the Cohan-Hansom building, the fees are as follows:
Rental fees include one cleaning at the end of the event. If a second cleaning is required there will be an extra $100.00 charge.
Security
St. Matthew Church is not responsible for the security of vehicles or personal articles. Please lock cars and do not leave gifts or personal articles unattended.
Other Information
The church seats 700 people; the chapel 90 people. The church aisle is 100 feet long.
Florist Guidelines
- Floral arrangements should be constructed before arrival at the church.
- Artificial flowers and greenery are not permitted.
- All greenery and floral arrangements must be placed in containers.
- Pew markers should be fastened so that the wood will not be scratched. The church has 14 white bows attached to pew fasteners that can be used for the service.
- The florist must provide any containers and equipment needed with the exception of the two vases used for the altar flowers that the church provides.
- Floral arrangements should not obscure any of the symbols in the church nor impede the necessary movements that occur during the Liturgy.
- All decorations must be removed within one hour after the ceremony.
- If outdoor decorations are to be used they must be in place after the 5:00p.m. Mass and removed after the ceremony.
- The church requests that you leave two floral arrangements in the sanctuary for weekend Masses & be in place for evening weddings by 4:00p.m. These arrangements may be placed in the planters that are in the sanctuary. The planters measure 9" diameter and are 7 5/8" in depth. No other floral arrangements may be used on the altar.
- Care should be taken that the church and its furnishings are protected.
Photographer Guidelines
- Photography and videotaping must be discreet during the service.
- The sanctuary area may not be entered after the processional, during the service or before the recessional.
- Flash equipment may not be used after the start of the ceremony.
- Following the ceremony, pictures may be taken for 30 minutes.
- Videotaping must be done from a fixed position.
Final Checklist
Priest or deacon has been contacted
Church and/or hall have been reserved
Marriage preparation has been completed with priest or deacon, including the marriage preparation weekend
Facilities Usage Form has been completed
Event insurance has been obtained for reception
A Marriage License from the State has been obtained
Photographer’s Appendix has been given to photographer
Florist’s appendix has been given to florist
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